tonguing noun4 •A licking or lapping with the tongue.Your partner will be so eager to be licked and caressed that your introductory tonguings in this area just won't be enough. — 1992 •A technique used with wind instruments to enunciate different notes using the tongue on the reed or mouthpiece. •French kissing •(historical) flensing, cutting off strips of blubber in the butchering of a whale.Soon may the Wellerman come/To bring us sugar and tea and rum./One day, when the tonguing is done/We'll take our leave and go. — 1971 formstonguings