they/them /ˈðeɪˌðɛm/noun 1verb 1forms 4 noun1 •(Internet, offensive) A non-binary person; one who uses gender-neutral pronouns.I've long used videogames as a means to cope with both my disability and my dysphoria, but Baldur's Gate 3 is the first time I've been able to really get into roleplaying a they/them causing mayhem. — 2023 verb1 •To refer to (someone) using gender-neutral pronouns. formsthey/them'd · they/themmed · they/themming · they/thems