self-pleasing adjective 1noun 1forms 2 adjective1 •That pleases oneself; given over only to one's own pleasure.With such self-pleasing thoughts her wound she fed, / And thought so to beguile her grievous smart […] — 1590 noun1 •(euphemistic) masturbationEven today, the thought is "good girls don't, but good boys do." The reality is, girls, like boys, are curious about their bodies and may experiment with self-pleasing. — 2008 formsmore self-pleasing · most self-pleasing