counsel of despair noun2 •A proposal or piece of advice that indicates one has given up on trying to fix a given obstacle or problem.But it is a counsel of despair. You say somebody else might do something to make themselves stronger, therefore we should not bother to look to our own security. — 1986 •An action or decision that reflects the attitude behind such advice.Again, Agnosticism is “right” if it be a "counsel of honesty” ; wrong if it be a “counsel of despair.” — 1897 formscounsels of despair