abstemious UK /æbˈstiː.mɪ.əs/US /æbˈsti.mi.əs/ adjective5 •Refraining from freely consuming food or strong drink; sparing in diet; abstinent, temperate.Under his special eie / Abstemious I [Samson] grew up and thriv'd amain; / He led me on to mightiest deeds / Above the nerve of mortal arm / Against the uncircumcis'd, our enemies. — 1671 •Sparing in the indulgence of the appetite or passions.The Ms had an abstemious sex life; in fourteen years of marriage, they had had sex exactly six times. Mrs. M desired sex and more children, but her husband refused. — 2010 •Sparingly used; used with temperance or moderation. •Marked by, or spent in, abstinence.If yet Achilles have a Friend, whose Care / Is bent to please him; this Request forbear: / Till yonder Sun descend, ah let me pay / To Grief and Anguish one abstemious Day. — 1720 •(rare) Promotive of abstemiousness.But stranger Virtues yet in Streams we find, / Some change not only Bodies, but the Mind: / […] Clytorian Streams the love of Wine expel, / (Such is the virtue of th' abstemious Well;) […] — 1700 formsmore abstemious · most abstemious