womanhandle

verb2

1. •
   (humorous, rare) To manhandle or treat roughly (when done by a woman).
2. •
   (humorous, rare) To handle someone or something gently, or with very little effort (sometimes as opposed to manhandle).

   • It seems humanly reasonable that the three of us can woman-handle a mere man of your elderly and insulting avoirdupois. — 1915