take the wrong way

verb1

1. •
   To misunderstand (something), especially in a case of mistakenly regarding someone's behavior or remarks as offensive or hostile.

   • "[N]ow you do see what I mean, don't you, now? And you won't take it the wrong way? No, I was sure you wouldn't. There, now, we'll shake 'ands over it, and be as good friends as ever." — 1906