on the horns of a dilemma /ɒn‿ðə ˈhɔːnz‿əv‿ə daɪˈlɛmə/ prepositional phrase1 •Facing a choice between two equally undesirable alternatives.They vvere stuck on the horns of a dilemma, that sorely pricked them; unable to find a better situation, and unresolved to quit their present one. — 1784