matronize

verb4

1. •
   to make a woman calmer and more serious, like an older married woman

   • Childbed matronizes the giddiest spirits. — 1741
2. •
   (disapproving) Of a woman: to patronize or be condescending towards.
3. •
   to watch over and be in charge of someone in the way an older woman would, often going with a young woman to social events to make sure she behaves properly
4. •
   (disapproving) To criticize from a feminist perspective.