large and in charge

adjective2

1. •
   Dominating or controlling a situation with confidence and aplomb.

   • Sure, as the captain of your ship, you are the one to blame when things go wrong or fall apart, but you are also large and in charge when they go well. — 2011
2. •
   Of a person, domineering and of heavier weight than average, and who uses their physical presence as a buttress to authority, sometimes used as pejorative towards women.

   • Garfield Large & in Charge. — 2011