hot mess /ˌhɑt ˈmɛs/ noun4 •(US, informal) A situation or object in a state of extreme disarray.The politician's in a hot mess since the women got the vote -- his wife threatened not to vote for his candidate unless he wipes the dishes. — 1919 •(informal) A disheveled or unbalanced person, particularly one who is nevertheless, or therefore, attractive.My hair had two months of roots exposed. My brows were overgrown. I was a hot mess. And I was fat. — 2003 •A warm meal, usually cooked in a large pot, often similar to a stew or porridge; service of such a heated meal to soldiers."Smallbones," said the lieutenant, after trying the hot mess before him, and finding that he was still in danger of burning his mouth, "bring me the red-herring." — 1836 •(informal, no longer used) Trouble.I'm in a hot mess. formshot messes