hoes before bros saying2 •(slang, vulgar) A woman should prioritize her female friends over her boyfriend or husband.After contemplating the friendship code for a situation like this, I knew hoes before bros was the correct answer. Hoes being a term of endearment in this case, of course. — 2015 •(slang, vulgar) Said of a man who is willing to sacrifice a friendship for sex.'He always puts hoes before bros,' Layla moaned. — 2018