blow one's load verb2 •(slang, vulgar) To ejaculate, to cum.“I want your big cock up my ass so bad, I'm jacking off, and if I don't stop soon, I'm gonna blow my load." — 2009 •(slang, vulgar) Synonym of blow one's chance.He blew his load in the first round and went home early. formsblew one's load · blown one's load · blowing one's load · blows one's load